Elizabeth Bennet has been consistently described as strong-willed, independent, lively and witty. Her flaw was that she judged people on first impressions, leading to the word 'Prejudice' in the title. 'Pride' part of title comes from Mr. Darcy- every woman's fantasy- whose aloof decorum made Elizabeth and her family think that he is too proud. In this classic tale where romance between the two takes centre stage, love blooms when Elizabeth gets over her prejudices and Mr. Darcy gets over his pride.
I read this book when I was may be 16 years old. And have read it multiple times since then. It is my favourite book and Lizzie's is not only favourite character, but I have always found many of my traits in her. Her commitment to her family, her wilful yet kind nature, her 'handsome but not beautiful features', her independent streak, her temper, her courage to go against norms- I identified with everything that she embodied.
2) Betty Cooper- Archie comics: From classic to comics. I started reading Archie comics when I think I was about 7 or 8 years old. Much to the chagrin of my older cousin who firmly believed I should reach Richie Rich as it was more age appropriate for me. I never liked the 'poor little rich boy'. Super annoying! However I loved Archie comics. I used to entire spend school summer holidays reading them non-stop.
I have always believed that female population of the world is divided between the Bettys and the Veronicas. And yes, the twain shall never meet. I am so Betty. Cute, adorable, kind, loving, helpful, funny, the best friend anyone can ask for...and still waiting for my Archie...
3) Hermione Granger- Harry Potter: Smart, studious, sometimes too serious, academic over achiever. Need I go on?
4) Jo March- Little Women: Another favourite book of mine. One which I have read over 50 times since I first read it in when I was 12. It's also a book that I gift to daughters of all my friends. It's a must read classic for every girl big and small.
A story about 4 sisters set in America in 1870s. The sister I most identified with was Josephine who insisted she be called Jo. Described as clumsy- check; blunt- check; opinionated- check; hot-tempered- errr yes definite check; humorous- final check. Though I have never been a Tom Boy so am slightly different from Jo in that respect, I relate to her in every other way. I cried buckets when I read the sequel 'Good Wives' where her annoying younger sister Amy marries her best friend Laurie.
Side bar- Amol Palekar made a TV show on Doordarshan in the 80s called Kachchi Dhoop which was based on Little Women. It was Bhagyashree's (of Maine Pyar Kiya fame) screen debut. She played the eldest sister. It also had Ashutosh Gowarikar (director of Swades and Jodha Akhbar) who played Bhagyashree's love interest 'Nikhil Sir'.
5) Carrie Bradshaw- Sex and the City: I have not met a man till date who think Sarah Jessica Parker is good looking. I for one, adore her. I loved 'Sex and the City'- the TV show, not the movies. I think Carrie bought to light the modern woman's dilemmas and delights in a stunningly humours yet realistic manner. Is it too lame to say I wish I could write as witty as her? Yes, yes, I know the writers wrote her lines, but in my head it was always Carrie. P.s. love SJP's cameo in Glee-4. Damn, now I have admitted to the extent of my trashy TV habits.
6) Nancy Drew- Nancy Drew Mysteries: when I was young I fantasised if Nancy Drew ever needed to solve a mystery in India, she would choose me as her partner- language skills, local knowledge, etc are important for a detective. Nancy was smart, little nerdy, a bit of goody-two-shoes and had been described as super girl. I never believed I could match up to her standards, but I think I do have some common traits.
Side bar- I only found out now that Nancy Drew books have been ghostwritten by a number of authors and are published under the collective pseudonym Carolyn Keene.
7) Catelyn Stark- Game of Thrones: because I am so addicted right now to the series in both forms of its book and the TV series, I had to include a character from there. I adore Arya Stark and feel I have her fighting spirit and never-say-die attitude, but she is 10. Anyway I do think I am a lot more like her mum Catelyn, Lady of Winterfell. She is brave, smart, loyal and a devoted mum who would do anything for her kids. Yes, if I ever were part of the series, I think I would be most suited to play her. Though I would want to play...well can't reveal that in public.
8) Anne- Anne of Green Gables: is a bestselling novel by Canadian author Lucy Maud
Montgomery.
A literary classic written as children's novel, which I only happened to read a few years ago. And I was smitten! The story recounts the adventures of Anne Shirley, a young orphan girl sent to a middle-aged brother and sister who have a farm on Prince Edward Island, and who had intended to adopt a boy to help them. Anne (with an 'e' as she believed its more distinguished that way) is bright, witty, talkative and extremely imaginative. I don't think I was like her as a child, but I feel I am now. Anne made friends with the most unlikely people as she believed they were 'kindred spirits' like her. I have met a few such kindred spirits in my life. It's more then mere friendship, it's almost a spiritual connection which is so beautiful that you can't describe it in words.
9) Drupadi- Mahabharata- I don't know where to begin. I felt a kinship of sorts with Drupadi ever since I read Amar Chitra Katha comics. It further developed while watching Mahabharata on TV.
I think she is remembered for all the wrong reasons- a woman with five husbands, reason for the war between Pandavs and Kauravs, her spirit of revenge. People fail to emphasize with her plight. She did not choose to be married to five men. It was forced upon her. She did not urge her husbands to start a war, she only begged them in open court to save her. She has been humiliated, abused, ill-treated and hurt multiple times over. So she was justified in being angry. Drupadi's story is a prime example of the male chauvinistic attitudes prevalent in Indian society then, and to a large extent even today.
Side bar- I would urge all women to read 'Palace of Illusions'. A novel by Chitra Banerjee Divakaruni where she writes Mahabharata from Drupadi's perspective. It's a work of fiction, where certain creative liberties are taken, however it does make you wonder if their is some truth in them.
Well here is where we are now...I don't have a no. 10!
I was going to include Lata from A Suitable Boy by Vikram Seth but realised even though I enjoyed the book and liked her character, I am nothing like her. For one, I would have never given up Amit the poet in favor of Harish the Blah.
Then I debated over adding Katniss Everdeen of Hunger Games because I simply LOVE the book, and the movie and Jennifer Lawrence.
However I would be lying if I said I was like her. Katniss is too strong, too brave and little too emotionless to be like me.
Hence in tune with the times, I wish to propose 'crowd sourcing'. My readers are welcome to suggest literary characters who they think are like me. Simply add a comment on my Facebook post. Would love to hear from you!
And finally...my perfect man is someone who loves books as much as I do...What say Ryan?
